Virginity is not the pride of a woman,unless it is connected to a good personality. We have a lot of ill mannered virgins who lacks morals; they masturbate, they watch porn, they even do same sex, they steal and lie.
You might seek to ask, how possible it is to be virgin and still lack morals? Yes it is very possible because morality is not all about outward gestures.
Real morality begins in the heart possible to be a virgin but always lusting. Come to think of it, some people are not virgins because of the right reasons. They are still virgins because they have been restricted and cannot fulfil their sexual dreams. Hence they remain unbroken but their state of mind is already bastardized.
Virginity is not the pride of a woman, character is. The fact that we have so promoted that virginity is the pride of a woman, alot of girls commit suicide after loosing their virginity because they believe that they can never worth anything. Please in as much as having sex is wrong, it’s also wrong for us to say sex makes people worthless; maybe it dies but not wise to exaggerate it.
A lot of girls are forced to feel worthless because they have been told that to lose their virginity means to lose it all it takes to be a woman, which is gibberish. You don’t lose all when you lose your virginity; and I don’t seek to use this message to encourage randiness. Sex should be avoided till marriage but if you have done it, it doesn’t disqualify you as a good woman.
Virginity doesn’t mean purity in all cases. Purity transcends physical intimacy. Purity is deeper than having you hymen broken. If you think a man will marry you because you are only a virgin, you are on the longest thing ever.
Lastly make sure your virginity transcends the sexual own, let it touch emotional virginity,social virginity, Religious virginity, mental virginity and virginity of all other facets of life.